Children and work

People marry each other because they want to have a family and they really need it. That is why most people marry each other. And if people want a family they will soon think about kinds and as a rule all couples start having kids. And if there are kids there should be one who refuses the carrier and sacrifice it for the sake of kids. And that one is always a woman because nature created her as the keeper of hearth and fire. There is nothing wrong in it and it is actually right and this is the way things should be. But, sometimes another problem appears and this is the problems about importance of things spouses do. A man is tired after his work and he needs care after him at home, and woman is too tired to lay the table and she simply points on the oven and says that dinner is in there. And they sometimes quarrel because each of them thinks that another underestimates the job. This marriage won’t work if people act like that. They have to realize that job of both of them is tough and they have to care after each other.

Fifty-fifty household

As a rule family always takes two. Family takes two at first and then there may be other people in the family. Though, those first two of people are the base for the family and they are people to care after kids and home and the whole household. Things used to be clear when men were men and women were women but today there is no difference between male and female way of life and so there are some problems about the household. There are problems and those are about who will be the one to care about food and tidiness and the whole household stuff. And the best choice people are able to make is the choice about fifty-fifty household. It means that all those troubles are divided between people. Say, there is a person to care about food and there is another to care about cloths. People make an agreement and each does its duties and it is actually a good choice for people. This is the result of people’s ability for temporizing. And this ability is the main factor for people to be successful in their family and household life.